It is actually about yesterday and requires a bit of background.
Boyfriend and I decided to date exclusively rather early on in our relationship. I can’t remember if he went on any dates after we met, but I had only one date: the one with the Nerd. My decision to date exclusively went as follows:
I didn’t pressure Boyfriend to do the same–he initiated all of the early conversations about the relationship and I also told him that he needed to do what he felt was right. If he wasn’t ready to stop dating other women, then he shouldn’t stop. I told home that I hoped he would choose me, but I want to be with someone who wants to be with me and sometimes dating other people helps you to figure that out.
I didn’t settle for Boyfriend. If I ever stop enjoying things on balance, I’ll end it and spend more times with the cats.
I’m overdue for a real update. Short story is that vacation with Boyfriend went very well. In the meantime, snow days always make me crave watching Disney movies while eating tomato soup with grilled cheese. I also stumbled upon this video recently and thought I’d share it for everyone’s Monday morning entertainment:
I know it’s been awhile–fell down the stairs at home (don’t worry just bruised body and ego), been traveling for work, and spending time with Boyfriend. I met with a new licensed medical provider late last week (thanks to the kind people who reached out with recommendations and support–you are the bestest and never forget it). I like her better already. She’s going to chat with the old one and we’re meeting again Friday. I have a fear that she will turn on me, but I think (hope?) that’s irrational paranoia.
Anywho, things with Boyfriend are good and I’m quite happy. We’re going away this weekend together on our first trip. Perhaps it will provide interesting blog fodder, but to be honest, I sorta hope it doesn’t (sorry). In the meantime, I’ve been thinking quite a bit about what I want from a man and a relationship and I’ve had some inspiration from the Internet.